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Friday, June 10, 2005
Rules of the Game

My husband D and I are slowly finding our way in my sexual revolution. D has never had a problem with sex, other than not getting enough of it. He has always been a horny bastard. And he has always liked his sex a little dirty and aggressive, but would ultimately take what he could get. Every once in awhile I would get drunk and throw him a kinky bone. Drinking was my excuse to let go of my inhibitions and give in to his desires. I never considered that they were my desires, too. I'm sure he thought that once I quit drinking for good (which I did) that he would be doomed to a lifetime of vanilla sex dished out on a regular, but limited, basis.

Au contraire, my sexy man. Sobriety has brought a clarity like never before. Not only did it push me to reconnect with my spiritual beliefs, but it gave me the confidence to be honest with myself. By being honest with myself, I began to discover some really interesting things that eventually led me here to the exhibitionist world of blogging. What I started reading here helped me shed some of my preconceived notions about marriage, sex, and gender roles.

One of the new ideas that I discovered in my sexual re/evolution is rules. It seems that rules play an important part in D/s relationships, whether they're strict lifestyle agreements or fun, lighthearted guidelines for sex play. Everyone seems to have rules, but me. See, one of the silly things I do is compare my relationship to other couples (in other words, I'm really good at taking your inventory, but not so good at taking my own). In hindsight I realized that every relationship has rules - some verbalized, some tacit. So, it turns out I do have some rules. A couple, anyway.

Rule #1:
Ds the Boss.

Rule #2:
Always wear panties (thongs), because D has a panty thing. I am not allowed to wear granny panties ever again.

Rule #3:
Don't rule anything out until I try it at least once.

Rule #4:
I don't have to ask for sex. If I feel like I need to be satisfied, I am to suck Ds cock until it's hard and then jump on and ride him until I'm done. :-)

Not too bad, eh?

posted by Gabby Hey at 10:00 AM 12 comments


Blogger *J* said...

I want rule #4. Can I have rule #4? Pretty please?

11:10 AM  
Blogger Gabby Hey said...

Yeah, I really like #4. :-) Really like it a lot.

2:04 PM  
Blogger Tao said...

Any more rules?
I was just getting going...

2:04 PM  
Blogger O said...

Rule 4 rules!

4:25 PM  
Blogger Kaylem said...

Yeah, I want rule #4, too!

9:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

rule 4 RULES !!!!!!

2:19 AM  
Blogger cc said...

I agree about rule #4!!!!!!!!

1:34 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

:) nice...love em!

8:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Nice rules :)

And I love the new look!

3:52 PM  
Blogger *J* said...

Wow, Gabby - cool new template!

6:15 PM  
Blogger SD said...

I think I'd have a bit of trouble with Rule #1 but I'm definitely feeling #'s 2, 3 & 4... Oh yes, really feeling #4 ;)


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