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Friday, July 08, 2005
A Whole New Level

I'm still here, really I am. I just have been so busy with work and a new venture that I haven't had time for anything blogworthy this week. Until today.

I think I've grown past the need to label this "thing" I'm going through. I don't think it's necessary to dub it D/s or BDSM or sexual reawakening or whatever. It is what it is. But it's funny...the minute I start thinking that D and I aren't really this or that and we're really just a kinky couple rediscovering eachother, something happens to prove me wrong. Like the other morning when I was ordered out of the shower and on my knees to service my love. Simple. No preparation, no big to-do, simple submission. Lovely.

D doesn't read my blog often and he definitely doesn't read other blogs so his perception of my changes are obviously different. Because I'm really dedicated to not topping from the bottom, I've tried to not parrot back to him the things that I read or to compare us to other couples. So sometimes I'm not really sure if we're on the same page, or even reading the same book. When he made an unexpected turn into an unfamiliar part of our moutain area on the way home from dinner last night, I did not know what to think!

I'll elaborate further later, but let's just say that last night was wonderful in so many ways, but most importantly, D gets me. He seems to really understand what I want and what I need and is willing to give it to me. He understands. And I am so grateful.

posted by Gabby Hey at 8:04 AM 5 comments


Anonymous Anonymous said...

*sigh* that's the best thing I've read all day, gabby. I'm so happy for you.

3:37 PM  
Blogger Malcolm said...

we're on tenterhooks wondering what it was that D gave you, gabby.

11:26 PM  
Blogger Lady Janon said...

I know I'm on the edge of my seat here ;)

I'm so glad things are well and fun!

8:18 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Its funny what you say about bdsm and d/s and such, because reading you entry I agree with you, you are not in any way involved with those things. I think if you don't, or havn't, you should read some of the entries on my blog. I explain fairly well the point I am getting at in a few of my articles.

It's nice to know your husband is a master. Reguardless of what anyone calls it, based on your post, thats simplily what I call it. A master/slave relationship is not bdsm, its not abuse, its not D/s, its a master/slave relationship. I know many don''t like the term, but I use it for good reasons. :)

1:44 PM  
Blogger Dawn said...

While I don't agree with abit's description, I will say that it certainly sounds like you've both hit a stride that works for you both. THAT is the most important part of any relationship, and I'm glad that you're happy :)

and yes - let's get with the elaborating!

5:51 PM  

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